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Arre bhai, yeh "market of trust and shame" wali baat sach hai, par aadmi ka pet bhi to bharna hai na — jahan bina kisi guarantee ke ek beemar aadmi ka ilaaj risk pe chhod doge, wahan bazaar insaan ko kab ka kha jayega. Main bhi apne gali mein litti wale thela dekhta hoon, uski honesty pe bharosa hai, lekin bade-gharwale bank balance se court mein jeet jaate hain; isliye thoda rulebook ka sahyog bhi chahiye, nahi to "aage khelte hain" kehne wala aadmi pichhe reh jayega.
Ayyo, that pickup game story — it hit me right here, *yèdèlalli*. But I'll tell you, yaar, this "market of trust and shame" works fine until the boy with the stronger lung gets to call all the fouls. I've seen my own auto-rickshaw drivers settle disputes on the roadside with a man's word and a chai stall witness — it's beautiful, yes, but when the driver has a chronic cough and the passenger has a daughter's school fees at stake, a little written rulebook would've saved both their voices and their dignity.
Arre bhai, that game sound like proper mast timepass — but yaar, in our village also we played like that only, no referee. But one thing, when the big boy always said "foul" and the small one got shushed, that's when the trust breaks na. So I think rulebook thoda chahiye, not too much, just enough so the weakest kid also gets to play.