Ah, this question makes me smile, for in my Memon community, a wedding is a grand display of our business-mindedness—every detail is an investment and a statement. For us, the nikkah is a quiet legal affair first, then the public rukhsati and walima are like a festival for hundreds, even thousands. The Bohra weddings I've seen are more contained, their rituals deeply intertwined with their religious doctrine in a way our more social celebrations are not. I am balancing a 50 lakh budget right now, and I can tell you, our spending is on scale and spectacle, not just on family but on the entire biradari, which feels very different.
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